- Oct 24, 2025
Stop donating an energetic kidney
- Lori Randall Stradtman
- Spiritual Recovery
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Maybe you’ve been giving yourself away—especially if you’re one of those spiritual, sensitive, generous souls who can feel everyone else’s needs before they even speak.
And everybody knows it.
Maybe:
You answer messages the second they ping.
You apologize for “being slow” when it’s only been an hour.
You treat every DM like it’s a divine summons to abandon yourself, your dreams, your body’s quiet needs.
Because you were trained to.
Because you’re really good at fixing problems, offering breakthroughs, leaving people better than you found them.
Which is beautiful—until it’s bone-deep exhausting and it costs you precious time.
Maybe you’ve started to notice: this is what bro marketing and grind culture depend on.
To keep you responsive, productive, on call—like a human version of ChatGPT with worse boundaries and no nap breaks.
But here’s the truth:
You don’t owe your nervous system to the algorithm.
Or to spiritual leaders who demand you accept their reality over your own embodied truth.
You don’t have to donate an energetic kidney every time someone wants a piece of you.
And the wild thing?
Being less available actually makes your work stronger, your magnetism sharper, your presence infinitely more valuable.
Because your field is clear.
And full of—YOU, thankfully.
There’s a better way than giving yourself away, thinking it's the only way to be seen, to get ahead in your business. There's a way where you're healthier, calmer, happier, and you achieve so much more that matters to you.
My fun, 60-second video shows you how this works.
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Because the new power move isn’t overgiving.
It’s presence. With yourself.
Much love to you,